A gift consists not in what is done or given, but in the intention of the giver or doer.
Lucius Annaeus Seneca (often known simply as Seneca, or Seneca the Younger) (ca. 4 BC-AD 65) was a Roman Stoic philosopher, statesman, dramatist, and in one work humorist, of the Silver Age of Latin literature.
I'm female, say nothing
I'm male, say nothing
I'm female, taken