This guy doesn't have a clue about what a real man is! He may be some limp-wristed pansey, but the vast majority of men aren't like that. That isn't to say we as men don't have areas of weakness, we do. We have vulnerabilities that women maybe don't as much as a whole and women have vulnerabilities that men don't typically have. God designed men and women differently for different roles to play. But as a whole, men are very capable of enduring great hardship .